Pre-Game Day

(aka Pre-Surgery Prep Day for those in Rio Linda 😉)

September 23rd, 2018

Today Tif is getting her game face and game plan ready in preparation for tomorrows surgery.  The BIG DAY — 9/24 — and to all our gamblers out there 924 may just be the ticket to buy!

On Friday (9/21) Tif met with her Surgeon, Dr. Ginger Gardner and team at MSK to discuss her upcoming surgery and plans going forward.  Just an FYI, Tif could not be in better hands with Dr. Gardner, and we just know she’s going to be up and walking VERY soon!

Get ready cause here she comes (apologies but since we KNOW she is gonna rock it this whole week we needed an “edgy version/tune of  “Get Ready“.)  Feel free to jump out of your seats to pray, run, sing or just dance!



Speaking of walking, (or for those who like to run) next Sunday, 9/30, if any of you are free and want to represent Team Tif (TT) please join some of our TT members for a 5/K Run/walk.  A 5K is 3.11 miles and you are welcome to do any part of that or all.  We are hoping for a great turnout and who knows Tif might just be there…  Details will follow as to meeting point at Stepinac but if you look out for the below logo you will find us 😉


Please Join Us!

                                                     TEAM TIFFANY 5K Run/Walk

                                                     Sunday, September 30th@ 9:30

                                                             Stepinac High School 

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                                                      Bring your Family & Friends &
Let’s Rally for Tiffany!!!!
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Feast Day of Padre Pio is Today 9/23

(running theme– there are NO accidents)

Yesterday Tif and Doug ventured in NYC to St. Patrick’s Old Cathedral in lower Manhattan to go and see Padre Pio’s relics that were on display this week.  The tour of the relics of Padre Pio on the occasion of the 50th commemoration anniversary of Padre Pio entering eternal life are traveling throughout the US and the relics of Saint Pio available for public veneration which Tif and Doug got to view are the following:

  • Saint Pio’s glove
  • Saint Pio’s crusts of the wounds
  • Cotton-gauze with Saint Pio’s blood stains
  • A lock of Saint Pio’s hair
  • Saint Pio’s mantle
  • Saint Pio’s handkerchief soaked with his sweat hours before he died

St. Pio, who was more commonly known as Padre Pio, was canonized by St. Pope John Paul II in 2002. The Capuchin Franciscan priest was known as a confessor and a mystic. He died in his native Italy on September23, 1968, at age 81. Pope John Paul II recognized Padre Pio as a saint on June 16, 2002. His feast day is today September 23.  He is the patron of civil defense volunteers, adolescents, and the village of Pietrelcina.  Padre Pio was said to have had the gift of reading souls, the ability to bilocate (according to eyewitness accounts), among other supernatural phenomena. He was said to communicate with angels and worked favors and healings before they were requested of him.  The reports of supernatural phenomena surrounding Padre Pio attracted fame and legend. The Vatican was initially skeptical BUT we are not 😉 .  As a matter of fact, Padre Pio was one of Dorothy O’Toole’s favorite saints and we just know he and she are storming the heaven in prayer for old Tif and are leading the charge for us all.

Tif and Doug also met up later with their sister-in-law, Joan (Tif’s late brother Brendan’s partner) and they had a fabulous “last meal” at one of their go-to places in the East


Village prior to today’s liquid diet.  Looking good as always – filled both spiritually and physically.

For those wanting to learn a bit more about Padre Pio the following short video is a mini lesson.

** for more Padre Pio information please check bottom of today’s blog.

And this brings us to today…


So today, Tif will continue preparing physically, mentally and spiritually and from what we know about Tif, she’s got this!  Tif not only looks great but is feeling terrific.

She wants you all to know that your positivity energy, healing thoughts, prayers and well wishes ARE working.  Elephants, good food, healing stones, mass cards… are all doing the job but she wants to thank you for your love and strong faith in her.  We know Team Tif is a community effort, no man is an island nor ever truly alone — Thank you!

Today Tif is on a liquid diet (broth, jello, hard candy and water/juice) and will be hanging low.  Surgery will take place at MSK in NYC and based on how she is feeling she will be at the hospital anywhere from 3-5 days.  She will then head home to recover which can be anywhere from 4-6 weeks.  Once she has healed from surgery she will hit the ground running to begin her next three rounds of chemo to destroy any existing cancer cells that MAY have been hiding during surgery.  We want the cancer gone and are calling on all our TT members to raise Tif up in prayer/song so that the cancer cells won’t have a choice but to GO AWAY for good!

In honor of Halloweens approaching date lets all switch the words out from our favorite go-to, the Scary Monster Song (aka “Go Away”), and sing in unison “Go Away Scary Cancer Cells,  Go Away”.  Another fabulous song in the Team Tif bumper rotation  🎼 😎 🎼 that will stay in your head for days! Sorry… you WERE warned.

In Closing…

Now that we have rocked out, signed up for the 5K walk/run at Stepinac, learned a bit about whose St. day it is today (quiz tomorrow 😳), and are chanting Go away scary cancer cells we will leave you with the following prayer.  We hope you all can find some time to read it today or tomorrow and think of Tif and all those who are facing uncertainty, challenges, and/or bumps and twists in the road.


**A Short Biography (well not too short…)

Padre Pio (Francesco Forgione) was born to Giuseppa and Grazio Forgione, in the small farming town of Pietrelcina, Italy on May 25, 1887. Although the Forgiones were poor in material goods, they were certainly rich in their faith life and in the love of God.

Even as a young boy, Francesco had already shown signs of extraordinary gifts of grace. At the age of five, he dedicated his life to God. From his early childhood, he showed a remarkable recollection of spirit and a love for the religious life. His mother described him as a quiet child who, from his earliest years, loved to go to church and to pray. As a young boy, he was able to see and communicate with, not only his guardian angel but also with Jesus and the Virgin Mary. In his simplicity, Francesco assumed everyone had the same experiences. Once a woman who noticed his spiritual demeanor asked him, “When did you consecrate your life to God? Was it at your first Holy Communion?” and he answered, “Always, daughter, always.”

When Francesco was fifteen years old, he was admitted to the novitiate of the Capuchin Order of the Friars Minor in Morcone, Italy. He was admired by his fellow-students as well as by his Superiors for his exemplary behavior and his deep piety. One of the novices stated, “There was something which distinguished him from the other students. Whenever I saw him, he was always humble, recollected, and silent. What struck me most about Brother Pio was his love of prayer.”

On August 10, 1910, at the age of twenty-three, Padre Pio was ordained to the priesthood. The celebration of the Holy Mass was for Padre Pio, the center of his spirituality.  Due to the long pauses of contemplative silence into which he entered at various parts of the Holy Sacrifice, his Mass could sometimes last several hours.  Everything about him spoke of how intensely he was living the Passion of Christ. The parish priest in Pietrelcina called Padre Pio’s Mass, “an incomprehensible mystery.” When asked to shorten his Mass, Padre Pio replied, “God knows that I want to say Mass just like any other priest, but I cannot do it.”

His parishioners were deeply impressed by his piety and one by one they began to come to him, seeking his counsel. For many, even a few moments in his presence, proved to be a life changing experience. As the years passed, pilgrims began to come to him by the thousands, from every corner of the world, drawn by the spiritual riches which flowed so freely from his extraordinary ministry. To his spiritual children he would say, “It seems to me as if Jesus has no other concern but the sanctification of your soul.”

Padre Pio is understood above all else as a man of prayer. Before he was thirty years old he had already reached the summit of the spiritual life known as the “unitive way” of transforming union with God. He prayed almost continuously. His prayers were usually very simple. He loved to pray the Rosary and recommended it to others. To someone who asked him what legacy he wished to leave to his spiritual children, his brief reply was, “My child, the Rosary.” He had a special mission to the souls in Purgatory and encouraged everyone to pray for them. He used to say, “We must empty Purgatory with our prayers.” Father Agostino Daniele, his confessor, director, and beloved friend said, “One admires in Padre Pio, his habitual union with God. When he speaks or is spoken to, we are aware that his heart and mind are not distracted from the thought and sentiment of God.”

Padre Pio suffered from poor health his entire life, once saying that his health had been declining from the time he was nine years old. After his ordination to the priesthood, he remained in his hometown of Pietrelcina and was separated from his religious community for more than five years due to his precarious health.  Although the cause of his prolonged and debilitating illnesses remained a mystery to his doctors, Padre Pio did not become discouraged. He offered all of his bodily sufferings to God as a sacrifice, for the conversion of souls. He experienced many spiritual sufferings as well. “I am fully convinced that my illness is due to a special permission of God,” he said.

Shortly after his ordination, he wrote a letter to his spiritual director, Father Benedetto Nardella, in which he asked permission to offer his life as a victim for sinners. He wrote, “For a long time I have felt in myself a need to offer myself to the Lord as a victim for poor sinners and for the souls in Purgatory. This desire has been growing continually in my heart so that it has now become what I would call a strong passion. . .It seems to me that Jesus wants this.” The marks of the stigmata, the wounds of Christ, appeared on Padre Pio’s body, on Friday, September 20, 1918, while he was praying before a crucifix and making his thanksgiving after Mass. He was thirty-one years old and became the first stigmatized priest in the history of the Church. With resignation and serenity, he bore the painful wounds in his hands, feet, and side for fifty years.

In addition, God endowed Padre Pio with many extraordinary spiritual gifts and charisms including the gift of healing, bilocation, prophecy, miracles, discernment of spirits, the ability to abstain beyond man’s natural powers from both sleep and nourishment, the ability to read hearts, the gift of tongues (the ability to speak and understand languages that he had never studied), the gift of conversions, the grace to see angelic beings in form, and the fragrance which emanated from his wounds and which frequently announced his invisible presence. When a friend once questioned him about these charisms, Padre Pio said, “You know, they are a mystery to me, too.” Although he received more than his share of spiritual gifts, he never sought them, never felt worthy of them. He never put the gifts before the Giver. He always remained humble, constantly at the disposal of Almighty God.

His day began at 2:30 a.m. when he would rise to begin his prayers and to make his preparation for Mass. He was able to carry on a busy apostolate with only a few hours of sleep each night and an amount of food that was so small (300-400 calories a day) that his fellow priests stated that it was not enough food even to keep a small child alive. Between Mass and confessions, his workday lasted 19 hours. He very rarely left the monastery and never took even a day’s vacation from his grueling schedule in 51 years. He never read a newspaper or listened to the radio. He cautioned his spiritual children against watching television.

In his monastery in San Giovanni Rotondo, he lived the Franciscan spirit of poverty with detachment from self, from possessions, and from comforts. He always had a great love for the virtue of chastity, and his behavior was modest in all situations and with all people. In his lifetime, Padre Pio reconciled thousands of men and women back to their faith.

The prayer groups that Padre Pio established have now spread throughout the world. He gave a new spirit to hospitals by founding one which he called “The Home for the Relief of Suffering.” He saw the image of Christ in the poor, the suffering, and the sick and gave himself particularly to them. He once said, “Bring God to all those who are sick. This will help them more than any other remedy.”

Serene and well prepared, he surrendered to Sister Death on September 23, 1968 at the age of eighty-one. He died as he had lived, with his Rosary in his hands. His last words were Gesú, Maria – Jesus, Mary – which he repeated over and over until he breathed his last. He had often declared, “After my death I will do more. My real mission will begin after my death.”

In 1971, Pope Paul VI, speaking to the superiors of the Capuchin order, said of Padre Pio, “What fame he had. How many followers from around the world. Why? Was it because he was a philosopher, a scholar, or because he had means at his disposal? No, it was because he said Mass humbly, heard confessions from morning until night and was a marked representative of the stigmata of Our Lord. He was truly a man of prayer and suffering.”

In one of the largest liturgies in the Vatican’s history, Pope John Paul II canonized Padre Pio on June 16, 2002. During his homily, Pope John Paul recalled how, in 1947, as a young priest he journeyed from Poland to make his confession to Padre Pio. “Prayer and charity–this is the most concrete synthesis of Padre Pio’s teaching,” the Pope said.

Drawing approximately eight million pilgrims each year, San Giovanni Rotondo, where St. Pio lived and is now buried, is second only to the shrine of Our Lady of Guadalupe in Mexico in its number of annual visitors.

St. Pio’s whole life might be summed up in the words of St. Paul to the Colossians, “Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I complete what is lacking in Christ’s afflictions for the sake of his body, that is, the Church.”

Padre Pio of Pietrelcina, pray for us.


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